Sometimes things don’t go the way we want them to. While you consider “the one”, you might be ignoring signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you.
In this blog, we shall be looking at these signs.
He doesn’t Give You Attention When You Are Together
“He is always on the phone when we are together”
“He never pays attention to me when I’m talking”
Or other things like. If you notice him doing these things, it’s one of the clearest signs he doesn’t want to commit. While checking the phone every once in a while doesn’t count in ignoring you, a person who loves you, won’t make you repeat what you said.
If he is not giving you his undivided attention and doesn’t focus on each and every line you say, take it as a sign.
He Doesn’t Make Long Term Plans with You
People who want to stay together for a long time, make plans for a long time. They buy concert tickets in advance, buy clothes for a friend’s wedding which is a few months away, make travel plans for later, and so on.
And a person who isn’t planning to stay for a long time with would avoid doing such things.
He is Not Introducing You to His Friends
If a guy likes you, he will introduce to all those who are important to him. And if isn’t doing this with you, well, there is something fishy going on.
See, if your interest isn’t introduced to his friend’s group or other important figures, he isn’t really interested in you, or has long terms plans with you. so, take this red flag as one of the major signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you.
He is Not Reliable
Trust is one of the most important things in any given relationship. Building trust before you commit to someone is really important. And if someone is willingly being unreliable or doesn’t seem worth your trust, there are chances they are doing this.
Why? Because they don’t want anything serious with you. confused? well, the thing it is as this: if he frequently cancels planes, isn’t clear about his whereabouts, or just isn’t straightforward with you, it means he doesn’t want to you.
Again this is connected to the last point.
if he is ghosting you, and showing up again out of nowhere, it’s a clear sign that he doesn’t want to talk to you, let alone commit to you.
He is Emotionally Absent
See, we usually don’t see boys as someone who is overly emotional. So, when a guy is showing his emotions, opening up to you, and emotionally investing in you, that means he means to keep if you in his life for a long time.
However, the opposite of the same is also equally true. If he isn’t talking to you, and being emotionally absent, it is one of the main signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you. period.